As illustrated in the previous section outlining my clinical learning The Master of Science in Family Therapy has not only provided the necessary experience and skills needed but has also provided a path of purpose and of personal healing. One evening while reflecting on a classroom assignment, I came across this passage in the New Testament book of John.
When Jesus saw him lie, and knew that he had been now a long time in that case, he saith unto him, Wilt thou be made whole? The impotent man answered him, Sir, I have no man, when the water is troubled, to put me into the pool: but while I am coming, another steppeth down before me. Jesus saith unto him, Rise, take up thy bed, and walk. And immediately the man was made whole, and took up his bed, and walked: and on the same day was the sabbath. John 5: 6-9 (King James Version)
This passage spoke deeply into my life. I was that person: powerless (impotent), disabled by the deep wounds of my past. Waiting for the water (of life and joy) to stir and for someone (anyone) to "help me" get "in" or "give" me a turn (and be fair). And then the Master passes by and instead of "blaming," or "accusing," or "judging," With compassion, He simply asks, "Will you be made whole?" And even when we "defend" our "infirmity," or casts “blame, the Master doesn't counter our "arguments," instead He hears our "yes" and asks us to, "Stand up, take your bed (of comfort, of infirmity, of...) and walk.
This verse along with the simple statement that “Going back “home” is about changing yourself in relation to others.” (Rathbun, Class Lecture, 11-20-2008) provided a perspective of the work I felt compelled to do; to journey with others through the painful events of their life and listen for their “yes” and with like compassion walk with them on the path towards healing and allow them to “take up their bed and walk” home. The Master of Science in Family Therapy from Friends University has provided me with the education and the experience to “walk well” with myself and others.
